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In the Home

A Look at the Trends 

OKC-based contractor Kent Hoffman says that open concepts – kitchens blending with living rooms blending with outdoor spaces – are a major request for many of his clients. Photo courtesy Kent Hoffman Construction

Current in-home trends reflect homeowners’ inclinations to nestle into the quiet luxury of understated opulence, rather than indulge in flashy design, says builder Kent Hoffman, owner of the OKC-based Kent Hoffman Construction. Instead of moving, today’s homeowners also want to improve their existing spaces.

While the 2020 pandemic led to a rise in home office installations, Hoffman says that “COVID focused people more on improving their homes in general, as they’re spending a lot of time there. The thinking is that if it happened again, our homes would be ready. And some people aren’t traveling as much, so they’re using that income to improve their homes.”

Many people are opting to re-do kitchens and upgrade primary bedrooms with ensuite bathrooms and closet expansions.

“There’s also a great demand for outdoor living spaces,” says Hoffman. “This can be as simple as a patio or as involved as a covered outdoor living room with sun-blocking blinds, a TV, heating, a fireplace – and frequently this includes a pool.”

But trends vary with the scale and price point. 

“We are blessed to work in a very high-end world of projects,” says Hoffman. “We are getting more requests for two kitchens – a main kitchen and additional prep kitchen that is often a ‘butler’s pantry.’ The open living concept is still popular, but now people are also wanting a separate dining room. Overall, kitchens opening to a family room and onto an outdoor living room are popular, as a lot of living goes on in those spaces.” 

Style choices can vary widely, he says, but in general, modern style is au currant with people seeking that clean, sleek, open ambiance with light colors and countertops.

“I try to incorporate some water element in every project we do, and rarely do clients turn down the option – as people love that sound of trickling, babbling water,” says Tulsa-based architect Brian Freese. Photo courtesy Freese Architecture

Home Improvement

Home improvement projects continue to be a consumer draw to build equity in one’s home as well as curate features to fit the desires of a homeowner. Current demand is high to incorporate multigenerational spaces – meaning additional entrances for parents or for kids moving back home, as well as basements with full kitchens and baths and multi-use playrooms. A record number of baby boomers are aging in place as well, creating a need for safety improvements like walk-in tubs and stair lifts. 

Kathy Caviness with OKC-based Caviness Landscape and Design has noticed home improvement measures that also improve one’s health.

“A big trend in 2024 is a concentration on health benefits. Outdoor cold plunge features starting around $4,900 are rising in popularity due to the health benefits,” she says. “These built-in cold plunges can be integrated into the landscape like a hot tub or spa would be. The benefits are numerous – from enhanced mood and focus to reduction in inflammation and muscle soreness. Saunas are rising in popularity again as well. When combining the two, the benefits improve even more. Integrating both into a landscape design where they can blend in and not be an eyesore can be achieved with an experienced landscape designer.”

Keeping It Sustainable 

Going green continues to remain a top priority for homeowners and designers in 2024. Practices to become more sustainable run the gamut and include energy efficient lighting; the use of recycled, repurposed or reclaimed materials; upgrading and sealing windows and doors to reduce the need for air conditioning; purchasing energy-efficient appliances; solar energy usage; eco-friendly paint for renovations or new projects; and even growing food-bearing gardens.

“I see a greater awareness and requests for environmentally sustainable materials and for smaller houses with more efficient use of square footage,” says Brian Freese, owner of Tulsa-based Freese Architecture. “There is a greater desire to create homes and spaces more personally meaningful and not designed to impress others. We are designing our homes to be intentionally spare in the selection of materials so there is a greater emphasis on overall space and volume and connection to outdoors.” 

The demand for solar energy incorporation is rising, Freese says, adding that both residential and business projects are finding value in that investment.

“We’re also seeing an increase in the desire for the use of natural materials such as repurposed materials, wood and stone,” he says. “There is more information out every day about the embedded chemicals in construction projects with VOC – volatile organic compounds – and the dangers of VOC outgassing has more people choosing natural materials.”

Tech-O-Clock 

Home safety and security never go out of style, and Hoffman continues to see a focus on security technology “that is all tied to the homeowners’ phone, where they can monitor and control things like sound, lighting, temperature control, the garage door, appliances and audio/visual. You name it, and there is an app that will automate your phone and devices.”

When it comes to in-home tech, “connectivity is constantly evolving, incorporating everything from air purification systems to automatic window and shower cleaners, entertainment hubs that connect all devices into one, and even programmable smart bulbs that use LED technology. 

“Contractors are seeing a rise in high tech doorbells, security cameras and digital security locks, as this technology is becoming more affordably accessible,” says Hoffman.

In the Garden 

Outdoor Trends 

Immersing oneself in nature, especially in the garden, is one of life’s richest rewards, and trends continue to reflect a reverence for sustainability in gardening efforts. Other green trends include houseplants that provide pops of color, indoor wall gardens with oxygen-enhancing properties, indoor trees and hortifuturism – which is the practice of creating futuristic-looking gardens for maximum entertainment. (Think metallic hues, neon colors and unique plant shapes.)

Architect Brian Freese says he’s seen a rise in clients requesting sustainable materials, as well as smaller homes with a more efficient use of square footage. Photo courtesy Freese Architecture

“With a lot of people choosing to stay in their current homes, a ‘refresh’ to their landscape is high on the list,” says Caviness. “Even if they will be planning to put their home on the market in the near future, the landscape is the ‘frame’ of the home and the first and last impression made to a potential home buyer. Even clearing out overgrown plants, refreshing the soil, adding new mulch and seasonal flowers can make a dramatic difference.  Reaching out to a reputable landscape designer to create a plan – and who can even do the installation if you want – is a smart choice in order to bring the desired results.”

Hoffman agrees about the importance of landscape maintenance, and has also noticed a nod to sustainability in recent years. 

“We’re seeing a lot of demand for synthetic grass in outdoor patios and outdoor living rooms,” says Hoffman.  “It is especially popular for older people and people who travel a lot in general. Here in Oklahoma, it can be difficult to maintain lawns with our severe climate, and there is the cost of water and a conservation aspect of it. – fertilization and mowing and all those things associated with natural grass, so we have this big move to move to synthetic.”

Health Benefits of A Green Thumb

The Mayo Clinic says gardening has a variety of health benefits, including increased exercise – as gardening is more active than people realize. It also improves diet and fiber intake if you’re growing your own produce. Reducing stress and spending time in nature are also priceless benefits of getting one’s hands in the dirt and spending time under the sun; AARP reports that outdoor time increases one’s vitamin D levels and lowers the risk of dementia due to physical activity and emotional engagement. Experts also point to possible social benefits from participation in community garden efforts and local gardening clubs. 

Types of Gardens 

A garden reflects its owner, and each is a unique product of that constructive interaction with nature. There are a variety of garden types that appeal to different folks and locations.

Garden styles range from classic to modern and everything in between, like rock gardens, designed to look like a natural part of the surroundings. Other types include Japanese, English cottage, Mediterranean, tropical and desert styles. For those short on space, try container gardening or go vertical with a garden built on a supportive structure to create a green wall in the home or outside. 

Pollinator gardens are an option designed with the intent of growing specific nectar and pollen-producing plants to attract pollinating insects.

How to Start a Garden 

Turning a yard into a garden starts with deciding on placement and then testing the soil with the experts to determine what types of items to plant. 

Testing kits are available at chain retailers, or you can submit samples to the Tulsa County OSU Extension Center or the OSU Soil Testing Laboratory in OKC. Experts suggest choosing native plants and establishing garden beds before planting seeds and seedlings. Mulching retains water and maintenance tasks include fertilization, watering and weeding.

A basic set of gardening tools, according to The Old Farmer’s Almanac, includes a hand trowel, a cultivator, spades and shovels, rakes, pruning shears, a wheelbarrow, a watering can and a gardening hose.

Combining Indoor and Outdoor

Perfecting Water Features

Water features remain high in homeowner popularity – both indoor and outdoor. 

“We do a wide array of outdoor water features,” says Freese. “I try to incorporate some water element in every project we do, and rarely do clients turn down the option – as people love that sound of trickling, babbling water. In my own office entry courtyard, there’s a water feature in the middle, and it’s a captivating example for clients to reference. 

“Indoor features tend to be smaller and are always very present, creating sound,” Freese continues. “Typical indoor placement is in stairwells, entries and/or adjacent to living and dining rooms. In a recent project, the indoor water feature was in the entry vestibule right off the garage and incorporated a small waterfall into a basin to calm and activate that spot as a soothing experience when coming home.” 

Hoffman typically creates outdoor water features “as part of a patio,” he says. “The water feature is often a fountain that the owner has purchased, or perhaps we’ll incorporate a waterfall with a new swimming pool, often with the infinity edge to the pool. We just finished a project with an 8-foot-tall wall of water cascading down tiles and falling into the pool.”

Caviness agrees that no matter the water feature you choose, it will only add to your ambiance. Remember, however, to plan ahead and consider your space.

“If you are considering a water feature of some sort, there are a multitude of options available,” she says. “From nature-inspired waterfalls that spill into a small pond, ‘pondless’ water features that could include a statue or stone element, water walls, stream beds – whether a natural look or a more structured style – add so much to the quality of life in your outdoor living space.  If considering a water feature, budget for landscape plant material and landscape lighting, if you can. Also, you might consider freeze-protection equipment that will automatically kick on when the temperature drops.”

Pools with natural looking waterfall enhancements remain a popular request with clients for Kathy Caviness. Photo courtesy Caviness Landscape and Design

Perfecting the Patio

Kent Hoffman advises those hoping to make an outdoor patio to be mindful of which direction they plan to build in. Photo courtesy Kent Hoffman Construction

A patio is the launching point for outdoor living, whether placed in the backyard, side yard or even front yard. When planning a patio, start with the sun’s placement, says Hoffman.

“Decide what you are trying to do with that sunlight,” he says. “If it’s a west facing house, that is different than facing the other directions, so see what the sun does and work accordingly. Most patios we do are off the main house and become a beautiful outdoor living room, and they often have a roof and even vaulted ceilings with wood beams and fans. 

“Typically, we install infrared heaters to make the space a year-round asset, especially if there’s a cigar or cigarette smoker involved. The patios often have fireplaces to add to the all-seasons functionality. Including kitchenettes is also common, as well as a cooking station for grilling.”

A Grand Lake Getaway

Family fun and stunning lake view living inspired interior designer Mel Bean’s recent Shangri La Grand Lake project which, once completed and staged, was revealed to the entire extended family at once.

“This was a second home for a couple with grown daughters who have nearby lake houses,” says Bean, owner of Mel Bean Interiors. “This is a home for multi-generational experiences, and the inspiration drew from the lake environment and epic views for a family of very warm, hospitable people.

The design took a Southern hospitality approach, straddling traditional style with a casual lake house for a cozy, welcoming result.”

Entertaining is a priority, she says, and the design encompasses spaces that invite intimate gatherings, including a dining nook off the main living and kitchen area as well as a card room with a bar and a moody-hued game lounge for a club-like experience.

Bean was surprised that this cozy, darker card room – unlike the lightness of the rest of the home – has become a place that’s frequented often.

“They really do use it all throughout the day,” she says. “It’s in the front of the house, and you can look through to the back and see the lake, or the front for open fields and endless sky out the large window. It’s a spot where they make daily calls and emails from the game table and have a glass of wine in the evenings. With the large, glass pocket doors that open, it’s both spacious and intimate.”

For Bean, working with the family was her favorite part of the creation process.

“After we did the presentation process for the plan with the family, they trusted us and didn’t see it until the final reveal, which was a lot of fun,” she says. “They were so engaged and excited and trusted us to see the vision through. We always listen to the client and take inspiration from their ideas to inform the direction of the project. But we also push their boundaries a bit, and present concepts that may be beyond their comfort zones. For example, there is a console table in the foyer entry that is a bit dramatic, and at first they weren’t sure. But now it’s one of their favorite pieces.”

The project was a spirited and creative collaboration between the designer and the lady of the house with input from her daughters. The husband? Bean says his only caveat was the inclusion of comfortable recliners – and that he found the end result far more beautiful than he’d ever imagined.

A Paw-Sitive Effect

Willow Ranch in Edmond welcomes clients of all ages to try equine-assisted therapy. Photo courtesy Willow Ranch

A New Pet Owner Guide

So, you’ve just become the proud owner of a new pet, whether it’s a kitten, puppy, bunny, fish or turtle. Congrats! While this time is exciting, you should also ask yourself: what are the right steps to ensure this animal is coming into a safe space? 

Pet-Proofing

“Prepare the home as you would for a young child,” says Matthew Roper, DVM, medical director at VCA Roswell Animal Hospital. “Maintain open communication with your family veterinarian, as they are going to be a part of the growth and development of your pet for their entire life.”

Pet-proofing will include choosing where your new family member will sleep and play, as well as what it will eat, its training protocols and any long-term health factors to consider. 

How Much Food?

Does your new puppy constantly seem hungry? Are you worried about over- or under-feeding?

“If [you’re] feeding [your animal] an appropriate, good quality food, most bags have a guide for feeding,” says Roper. “Many factors must be addressed though, including age, breed and activity level.”

Play Time, Training and Exercise 

“Encourage play with appropriate toys, other pets, quiet time in the crate or kennel and appropriate elimination,” says Roper. “Discourage chewing on inappropriate objects around the house with distraction and deterrence, to teach what they can chew or play with. Try not to negatively reinforce behaviors.”

Training often involves treats and, even if untrained, most pet owners like to reward their animals every once in a while. 

“Treats are very important, especially with training for positive reinforcement,” says Roper. “Frequency is up to the owners, but treats should not exceed 10% of daily calorie intake.”

How much exercise to give your pet depends on a myriad of factors, and is a good topic to discuss with your veterinarian. 

“All pets should get low impact activity at a young age,” advises Roper. “Large breed dogs, though, should not run consistently for long distances until after they turn about 18 months old, due to delayed closure of growth plates or bone growth. Activity should remain consistent throughout life to maintain muscles and healthy weight, decrease joint discomfort and help decrease risk of anxious behavior.”

Animal-Assisted Therapy 

Animal assisted therapy is a resource for all types of people, says Human Animal Link of Oklahoma (HALO) Foundation’s CEO Terri Smith. Some, however, may get animal-assisted therapy confused with the works of a service animal.  

The Human-Animal Link of Oklahoma helps clients in times of transition, trauma or crisis. Photos courtesy HALO

Service Dogs vs. Therapy Dogs: What’s the Difference?

“That’s not to say that a therapy dog, as in my case for over 20 years, can’t be part of an individualized therapy plan,” says Smith. “But there’s a big difference between service and therapy. Animal-assisted activities are for all, a service animal is for one person. Many of the activities that are under the umbrella for animal-assisted activities would be like our ‘children reading to dogs’ program by HALO, in partnership with the Metro Library system.”  

Pet Therapy at OSU

Oklahoma State University is among institutions nationwide utilizing animal-assisted therapy.

“As a university, we use dogs to impact college students, faculty, staff and visitors,” says Kendria Cost, director of the Ann Hargis OSU Center for Pet Therapy.  “We have regularly scheduled visits throughout campus – Muttday Monday, Yappy Hour and Waggin Wednesday at the library, BowWow Bennett, Pups at Parker, Wags at West in our residence halls, and Ruff Ruff Reboot in our counseling center.  We also do a variety of ‘private’ visits – new student orientations, recruiting events, sororities, fraternities, student organizations. We also have regularly scheduled visits to University Health Services to interact with staff and faculty in the health clinic.  Having the dogs around campus provides a touch of home.”  

Photos courtesy HALO

People from all walks of life can benefit from animal-assisted therapy. Bonds are formed that transcend species and personal challenges.

“We find most of our handlers are service oriented and naturally want to give back to others,” says Cost. “Good listening skills and a comprehensive knowledge of university resources are also important.  We do, at times, encounter people in distress, and it is important our handlers know where and how to refer to campus resources. Knowing and respecting boundaries are also important – our owners/handlers are not counselors, and it’s important we each recognize our role is to simply provide the appropriate resources.”

Equine Therapy

Willow Ranch, Christa Malcolm’s equine assisted counseling practice in Edmond, uses evidence-based resources to help clients. 

“The activities chosen for equine assisted counseling are experiential therapy,” she says. “This means the client learns about themselves and others by participating in physical activities with horses while processing thoughts, beliefs, behaviors and patterns. The equine assisted experience allows the client to have natural consequences and successes. The horse promotes healthy relationships and what is needed for and from the individual during the session.

“The bonds formed with the horse and client create many positive outcomes. Relationship connection, love, safety and acceptance and unconditional support are among them,” Malcolm continues. “Horses are social, resilient, powerful and have an innate focus on survival. Their feedback and awareness motivate clients to make positive changes.”

A Story of Hope

At HALO, Smith recalls a specific case where her German shepherd, Shayna, was assigned to assist a selectively mute 10-year-old girl.

“If you don’t speak out loud, things shut down in the brain,” says Smith. “This child was high IQ, gifted, but for her own reasons, she decided it was safer to not say anything at all – lest she feel rejected and disconnected.”

After a few weekly sessions with Shayna, the child was allowed to choose a classmate to join her in her session with the dog, giving the young girl an opportunity to show her peer what she’s been taught. While the interaction was all non-verbal, the child was becoming more comfortable.  One day, being caught out in the rain led to a breakthrough. 

Smith and Shayna were drying off as best they could when the little girl arrived for a therapy session.

“I told her that Shayna was ready to exercise with her but that I wasn’t yet,” says Smith.  “I gave her the leash and she went directly into the moves she knew, all to do with boundaries and planning courses of action. I told her that Shayna needed to hear her voice that day, just one word. And she did! She said Shayna’s name. That was the biggest breakthrough for that girl; she hadn’t spoken outside of her home in three years. That was the beginning of her speaking to her peers, as well.”

Places that Need Community Assistance

Most shelters and animal rescues rely upon donations to keep their doors open, and many employees are actually unpaid volunteers. There are a variety of organizations and shelters across the state that help strays and ensure injured animals are kept safe. 

Entirely donor and grant-funded, the Oklahoma Humane Society is a non-profit animal rescue, says Rachel Findley, vice president of development. 

“We don’t receive tax dollars to support our programming, so the amount of donations we receive directly impacts the number of animal lives we can save,” she says. “I think it’s also important to note that while Oklahoma has made great strides in animal welfare in the last decade or so, we are still a state that is dealing with animal overpopulation. There currently aren’t enough resources amongst rescues and municipal shelters to care for all the homeless animals in our community.”

Caring for Animals: A Calling

“The majority of our employees foster animals themselves,” says Findley. “Of course, they already have a heart for animals when entering this line of work, but I think they are seeing the need in our community first-hand and want to do everything they can to help. Something that I think many people don’t realize about OK Humane is that we are an entirely foster-based rescue, meaning we don’t have sheltering facilities for animals to be housed under our care. We have a small adoption center where dogs are dropped off and picked up each day by their fosters until they are adopted. Oftentimes, an animal’s barrier to entry into the OK Humane program is due to lack of a foster home. Our employees frequently step up and open their homes when a foster can’t be found because they know that just a few weeks in their home makes a lifesaving difference for an animal in need.”

How to Help

“Oklahoma’s homeless cat and dog population needs support,” says Findley. “More donors, fosters and volunteers are needed to help us expand our lifesaving capacity. Fostering is by far our greatest need. Fostering is typically a 2-4 week time commitment, and our team can help identify an animal that will be a good fit for a particular foster home. OK Humane covers all medical expenses and food for an animal while they are in a foster home.” 

Volunteers can also do everything from washing and folding laundry to walking dogs, cleaning kennels and helping at outreach events.

Appropriate Spaces for Pets 

Between dog parks, service animals, emotional support animals and the overall pet-loving society we live in, we often see people wanting to bring their pets to just about every event and destination these days.  While some places are borderline inappropriate – like indoor restaurants and some work places – it’s also important to consider that dogs can experience ‘trigger stacking’ when dealing with scary situations or multiple stressors.

When you can’t bring yourself to leave your beloved canine with a pet sitter or at home, you’re not alone. But there are steps to take to prepare your pup.

“If the need or want arises to include pets in social events, start small with a few people and/or other pets in a neutral, low-key, quiet environment,” says Roper. “Slowly work up to larger and louder environments. In most cases, pets should not be taken to fairs, concerts, [or events with] fireworks.”

Surveying the Real Estate Market

A nice house with a white-picket fence has long been synonymous with the American dream. However, rising home prices and interest rates have made home ownership more of a pipe dream for some. 

In 2023, the U.S. Census Bureau reported that home sales prices have more than tripled since 2001. Soaring costs have, in large part, to do with low inventory. According to the Bureau, approximately 89% of privately owned housing units are occupied. All these factors make for a hot real estate market that favors selling over buying. 

Despite the current economic state, there’s hope on the horizon for people looking to purchase a home in the coming years. 

“The good news for most people thinking of buying real estate today… [is that] interest rates are at a very good percentage; some as low as 6.33% – one of the best rates we have had since the pandemic,” says Sherry Lewis, owner and Oklahoma regional director at Keller Williams Realty. 

There’s also been a concerted effort to address the housing shortage at the state level. In January, Governor Kevin Stitt approved emergency rules for the Oklahoma Housing Finance Agency’s Housing Stability Program, which will provide $215 million in funding for the construction of single and multifamily housing units. 

Selling a Home: A Step-by Step Guide

Most people view homeownership as a long-term investment. So, when it comes to selling your home, you want to get as much back on your initial investment as possible. 

The first step is to set a timeline for when you’ll want to list the home. Warmer seasons, like spring and summer, are peak times for home-buying activity. Homes sold toward the end of April generally sell above the asking price, according to Zillow, an online real estate marketplace. Come October, homes are more likely to sell under the asking price. 

Once you’ve set a date, you’ll want to start decluttering. 

“If a person is considering selling their home, they need to really put their home in a very desirable condition,” says Lewis. “They need to remove valuable things and box them up so there is no concern.” 

The ultimate goal is to create a space that will enable potential buyers to envision themselves living it. 

Next, homeowners might want to make upgrades. Repainting cabinets and walls, resurfacing counters and refinishing wood floors are small touches that can go a long way. It’s important, however, not to get carried away with these renovations. 

“A lot of people like to redecorate and make their own choices, especially in regards to décor,” says Peter Walter, founder of Tulsa-based real estate agency Walter & Associates. “I think that it’s really the best for new buyers to do the updating.” 

As you near your listing date, you’ll want to determine an asking price for your home. One tried-and-true method is to work with a real estate agent to determine value. According to data from the National Association of Realtors, homes that were listed by the owner had a median sales price that was $95,000 less than homes that were listed with an agent in 2023. 

Shopping for homes has also become more digital over the years. To reach more buyers, you should list your home online. In doing so, the key is to take clear, professional photos and provide shoppers with an accurate description of the home. Photos should highlight selling points, such as fireplaces, pools and garages. Smaller details can be left for when potential buyers view the property for themselves.

When your house officially goes up for sale, you may receive multiple offers. Carefully consider all the factors. In many cases, the buyer may request specific repairs before finalizing their offer.  

If you decide to accept an offer, you’ll want to have all the documentation ready to go, like the title and purchase agreement. Having an attorney review the agreement before closing can also protect the seller’s rights and best interests. 

Buying a Home: A Step-by Step Guide

Buying a home is typically one of the biggest purchases someone makes in his or her life. But diving in too soon can set a person up for buyer’s remorse and financial woes. To avoid missteps, make deliberate plans before closing a deal. 

One of the first steps is to get your finances in order. 

“In today’s market, the value of homes hasn’t reduced very much, so the buyer needs to determine what amount of funds they have to invest in a home,” says Lewis. 

Financial experts recommend keeping all your housing expenses below 28% of your gross monthly income.  You’ll also want to factor in other costs, such as application fees, closing costs and insurance, to know how much you can realistically afford.

It’s also recommended to save for a down payment at least 6-12 months in advance. Doing so gives home buyers a chance to boost their credit score, which can help them secure a lower interest rate. Paying down debts and establishing a solid credit history can help put you on track, too.

The next step is to get preapproved for a home loan. There are several options beyond a conventional loan. For instance, an FHA loan can be a good fit for someone with less capital to put toward a down payment. To know what you qualify for, you’ll need to provide lenders with pay stubs, tax returns and other financial documents.

Selecting an agent to work with can help a buyer find a house that fits their lifestyle and budget. 

“Consider whatever area you want to live in, and work with an agent who has a good track record and experience,” advises Walter. 

It may be a good idea to designate certain days to tour homes. Viewing properties in person is critical to getting a feel for the neighborhood and the home’s layout. 

When you’ve found your dream home, you’ll want to make an offer quickly. Real estate agents can help you determine a fair offer by researching home sales prices in the area. They can also make the offer with certain contingencies, which protects the buyer from unforeseen expensive repairs. 

If your offer is accepted, you have the option to set up a home inspection next. Many mortgage lenders do not require home inspections; however, they’re strongly recommended as they give the buyer a better understanding of necessary maintenance or repairs. 

Before signing the real estate contract, the buyer will get the opportunity to do a final walk through of the home. 

Finally, it’s time to close the deal. Make sure to read the purchase agreement to verify that all the terms meet your expectations. Items that should be included in the sale, such as a dishwasher or refrigerator, must be noted. 

When you’ve signed the agreement, you can officially celebrate your new home. 

Creating a Smoother Ride

Whether you’re buying or selling a home, you’re about to go through a big transition. Save yourself a portion of the headache by planning ahead to make the process easier.

Homeowners and buyers alike can benefit from working with an agent, who will have firsthand experience in navigating the entire process. 

If you’re selling your home, one of the simplest ways to cut down on the chaos is to give yourself plenty of time to prepare. Some homeowners spend weeks, or even months, getting their house ready.

Homeowners may also want to consider paying for an inspection before listing their home. Doing so can help avoid unexpected surprises as you’re trying to close on a deal. 

If you’re buying a home, you may want to seek out advice from the experts. Financial advisors can guide you through the loan application process and let you know if you qualify for special assistance, such as a First-Time Homebuyer Credit. In a seller’s market, buyers may find it hard to beat out other offers. Making an offer that is above the asking price and setting aside a chunk of cash for an earnest money deposit can increase your odds of sealing the deal. 

Succeeding as a Real Estate Agent

Have you ever considered becoming a real estate agent? If you have a knack for networking, it may be just the career path for you. 

Some of the advantages of the role include flexible work hours and the ability to multiply your earnings from commission. But before you get your real estate license, you’ll need to take a state-approved, 90-hour salesperson course. A comprehensive list of approved courses is available on the Oklahoma Real Estate Commission website – oklahoma.gov/orec.

The next step is to take the official salesperson exam and pass with a score of 75% or higher. If you pass the exam, you can apply for a real estate license. Newly licensed agents are issued a provisional license until they complete additional hours of continuing education. 

Beyond education, successful real estate agents often possess a combination of soft skills that help them win new clients, including time management, clear communication and resourcefulness. 

“The key element is to provide the consumer great service – to be fair, honest and helpful,” says Lewis. “Many times, the buyer will have already worked with an agent, and if they have had a great working relationship, it is quite common that they will work with them again.” 

Nailing Curb Appeal

Home shoppers may decide if they like a property before they even step foot inside. A messy yard or chipped paint job can ward off potential buyers and prolong the time that your house sits on the market. Adding a few small touches to the exterior of your home can drastically boost its appeal. 

Excellent landscaping and gardening can make your home stand out from other properties. Cleaning out your garden beds, planting flowers and shrubs and adding lighting fixtures can breathe new life into your home. 

Don’t underestimate the power of color, either. Repainting your front door can boost your home value by up to $6,000, according to a study from Zillow. Slate blue-gray and black were some of the top performing colors when it comes to maximizing return on investment. 

Before getting carried away with paint, consider pressure washing the outside of your home. A pressure washer can quickly remove dirt from most exteriors and can also be used to clear driveways, decks and patios. 

Don’t forget to show some love to your trees. If you have a tree in your front yard, treat it as a focal point. Mature trees can add character to a home and provide shade in the summer heat. Pruning dead limbs and adding mulch around the trunk not only adds aesthetic appeal, but it also can improve the tree’s health.

Hot Ticket Items

Nearly four years later and the COVID-19 pandemic continues to shape the world. Real estate is no exception. Many people have shifted toward prioritizing amenities that balance comfort and function, and the demand for outdoor living spaces remains high. 

According to the Luxury Agent Poll published in 2023 by Forbes Global Properties, real estate agents selected outdoor kitchens and entertainment areas as the single most important luxury amenity. Indoor and outdoor pools ranked second on the list.

Designated home offices and fitness spaces continue to be hot-ticket items as more people work from home and focus on their physical and mental wellbeing. Home shoppers also are on the lookout for rooms that they can easily convert depending on their needs, such as hosting a guest or taking up a new hobby. 

The rise in technology is also making an impact on the real estate market. Voice-activated assistants, smart light switches, and integrated home security systems are popular for their convenience and automation. 

Undeniably, there are home amenities that will always be in demand regardless of market trends. “The most important elements of a home are to have a nice, functional kitchen and sufficient bedrooms for the size of the home,” explains Lewis. “And usually in [Oklahoma’s] market, a 2- or 3-car garage.”

All the Little Details

A steak-driven restaurant, Symmetry also offers everything from oysters to roasted bone marrow. Photos courtesy Symmetry

When Oklahoma City’s newest steakhouse, Symmetry, opened in the Nichols Hills neighborhood, it was designed from the start to stand out. It excels with steaks, global dishes and vintage cocktails, but its sleek and modern design is meant to be enjoyed leisurely.

Like everything else about the new restaurant – from the delicious cuisine to the curated yet comfortable atmosphere – even how the concept of the place was conceived is interesting – and a bit random. 

“It’s kind of crazy,” says Dave Osborn, part of the leadership team behind Symmetry. “My wife and I were driving to the mall because I needed a new pair of shoes, and we saw the space.”

The property at 9203 N. Pennsylvania Avenue was the former location of Naifeh Fine Jewelers, but had been recently converted into a restaurant space. Upon seeing it, Osborn reached out to his friend and business partner Jason Pool.

A steak-driven restaurant, Symmetry also offers cuisine like roasted bone marrow and oysters. All photos courtesy Symmetry

“We had always liked the idea of opening our own spot. Every restaurant guy does, I think,” Osborn says. “They opened the space for us two days later, and Jason and I walked in and said, ‘We could really do something with this.’”

Two days later, both men quit their jobs and signed the lease. Soon after, they convinced chef Glenn Scott to join the adventure.

“We came up with the name Symmetry to pay homage to what was here for so long – Naifeh Fine Jewelers,” says Osborn. “If you look at jewelry, you think ‘symmetry,’ and that really stuck. Like jewelry, you have to have an exact cut for that diamond to shine. We liked that because the dining industry as a whole needs more symmetry.”

To get that uniformity, the partners knew the whole experience, from the greetings at the entrance to the bar to the service to the back of house operations, had to be perfect. Hospitality was the keyword.

“It seems like the restaurant industry is moving away from hospitality; it feels like they just want to get people in and out quickly,” Osborn says. “We learned back in the day that it is handshakes at the front door and making the guests feel welcome that matters. Hospitality should be in all the little details.”

With the help of interior decorator Tammy Barrett, Osborn and Pool created the space to encourage diners to enjoy a meal, relax and feel at home, evidenced in ample couches and lounge areas.

“We created these couches that become a fun seating area to hang out and have appetizers and cocktails,” Osborn says. “Everything is designed to have people come in here and just have a good time.” 

Ultimately, though, people come – and return – to a restaurant for the food and drink. While Symmetry focuses on steaks, bison and wagyu, Scott also incorporates his years of experience to add global twists to the menu.

“Glenn … is not just stuck on one cuisine,” Osborn says. “He cooks Italian, and he likes German, Spanish and Mediterranean, so he’s tuned into all those flavors. We wanted the menu to encompass that.”

Coming from top-end steakhouses like Mahogany, the team knew they needed something special when it came to the main attraction. They found it with Meats by Linz, a Chicago-based meat company that sources cattle from a herd in Oklahoma. But the non-steak dishes are just as quality. 

“You have to get the chicken. It’s just amazing,” says Osborn. “If you get the chicken, you’ll fall in love with it and come back and order everything.”

From appetizers like roasted bone marrow and salmon crudo to mains like Mediterranean lamb, black truffle scallop risotto and duck breast, everything is prepared with the same attention to detail as the top-end steak cuts. 

The craft cocktails are also designed to sparkle. Bar manager Austin Greer incorporates touches like house-made syrups and foams, ice diamonds and specialty bitters to create drinks that truly shine.

 “Austin developed the cocktail list with his girlfriend Jessica, and their cocktails are out of this world,” Osborn says. “They are just so forward-thinking in today’s society.”

Despite just recently opening, “we are packed out on the weekends,” says Osborn. “We are excited to see where we go from here.”

Can You Handle the Heat? 

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“Don’t be a chicken – eat like a wolf.” That’s the motto of the Tulsa-based restaurant Chicken and the Wolf, which offers its diners all things poultry. You may be wondering why the joint discourages diners from being chickens themselves. Well … their dishes can be hot – so don’t say we didn’t warn you. Heat levels range from the original, x-mild and mild to medium, hot and x-hot. But the question remains: Can you handle the heat? (This writer sure can’t!) Popular menu items include chicken tender baskets and sandwiches like the OG, the Nashville and the Clucker, which all come with variations of fried chicken, lettuce, slaw, pickles and housemade sauce. Also delicious are the chicken fries, chicken salads, boozy slushies and cold beer. And if you’ve sworn off meat, vegan options abound – all with the same kick. 

A Howling Good Time

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El Coyote – a new bar and cantina in OKC’s Britton Town – is inspired by the aesthetic and flavors of Santa Fe, New Mexico. The joint is helmed by chef Jonathon Stranger, who has led other OKC-based culinary concepts including Osteria and Bar Cicchetti. For El Coyote, Stranger’s goal was to bring an authentic Southwest cantina experience to diners.

The restaurant, open seven days a week for dinner as well as Saturday and Sunday for brunch, has a menu that will surely entice. Start with apps that range from red chile rib tips to green chile chicken nachos, guacamole or posole. Tacos are a star of the menu, and you can order them a la carte or with a heartier platter. Options range from chicken verde to pork adovada and shredded beef, all served on house-made blue corn tortillas.

Other entrees will get you mouth watering; try the green chili double cheeseburger with sauteed onion, lime crema, cheese and lettuce, or the roasted mushroom chile relleno with beans, shredded cheese, pickled onion and queso fresco. Finish off with a Mexican hot chocolate cake or a sopapilla sundae. And brunch lovers get an additional menu to enjoy, with highlights like chorizo breakfast tacos, huevos rancheros and cinnamon and caramel flan. 

It wouldn’t be the full cantina experience without a selection of margaritas, and El Coyote doesn’t disappoint. Try the Devil’s Canyon with reposado tequila, raspberry-jalapeno syrup, lime juice and Tajin, or the Taos Desert Heat, with green chili and strawberry-infused tequila and triple sec. Alongside a selection of beers and wines, El Coyote also offers craft cocktails like spiced apple sangria and horchata. 

Appease the Food

Photos courtesy Crossing 2nd

When Nook Ducre’s grandfather made square fried eggs with square biscuits, Nook thought it was the coolest thing he’d ever seen. He was five years old. This was New Orleans, and everyone in his family could cook, so Ducre learned, too. 

Some years later, Ducre needed a job, and a local restaurant took him on as a line cook. 

“And I’ve been in the kitchen ever since,” he says.

Chef Nook Ducre, originally from New Orleans, now runs Crossing 2nd in Bartlesville. Photos courtesy Crossing 2nd

Ducre wanted to attend culinary school, but each time he planned to go, he was offered a promotion and stuck with his job instead. So, how did he get to where he is now without the formal training?

“I worked with some amazing chefs,” he says. “I kept my eyes open, and I read, read, read.” 

One of his promotions landed him at John Besh’s restaurant American Sector in New Orleans. Another landed him at Broussard’s, where he became executive sous chef. 

Luxurious, elegant and almost a century old, Broussard’s is one of the pillars of traditional New Orleans cuisine. Ducre learned a lot from the chef there, Neal Swidler. 

“He taught me how to balance ingredients, the importance of little things, how to go the extra mile, how to let the food speak for itself while remaining true to myself,” says Ducre. “‘Don’t appease people,’ Neal would say, ‘appease the food.’ I didn’t realize the impact that would have ’til much later.”

By 2018, Ducre felt like he was in a rut. He wanted to be more than a sous chef – he wanted the top job. He heard about a national competition called the Wright Chef; the winner got national recognition, plus the executive chef job at the restaurant in Bartleville’s landmark Price Tower, designed by Frank Lloyd Wright. (Get the pun?) He knew next to nothing about Bartlesville, or Oklahoma for that matter, but he still applied. 

There were 760 other contestants – which got narrowed down to ten, and they all met in Bartlesville for the finals. Each had to prepare a fine dining meal. Come time for the competition, Ducre’s plane was delayed 12 hours; he was barely able to prep his food. 

He won anyway. 

Within a few days, he was living in Oklahoma. It was a major culture shock, he says, and the person who helped him most during those days was chef Miranda Kaiser. 

“When I first met him,” Kaiser recalls, “I saw a quiet, hardworking guy who really cares about his craft. A man of few words but many culinary talents.”

Those talents blossomed on Oklahoma soil.

After leaving Price Tower a year later, Ducre started hosting monthly pop-up dinners. That was his time to soar. Creative, exuberant, playful dishes with names like Dan Doodlin in the Field (“Dan Doodlin is a sausage made decades ago in Appalachia – I love those old Southern foodways and I love charcuterie,” he says) and Quaking Canard (duck breast with farro salad, carrot puree and bordelaise sauce). These pop-ups were named the Cicada Supper Club. But within the past few months, Ducre has moved to a permanent brick-and-mortar space.

Crossing 2nd is a whimsical locale, decorated with souvenirs of world travel, and Ducre is now its executive chef. He has ambitious plans. Dishes will be “seasonal, bright and fresh,” he says. Produce will come from a local vegetable garden called Ragtag Resilience. 

“I’m going to put a Southern spin on things,” he says, but wants to clear up exactly what Southern cuisine can be. 

“It’s a serious misconception,” he says, “to think it’s nothing but heavy, fatty food. It is seasonal; it was developed by farmers. We got things killed, fished or farmed hours before. I want to use all this to broaden the culinary scene in Bartlesville.”

VEGETABLE BOLOGNESE

Ingredients:

  • 1 cup carrots
  • 1 cup parsnips
  • 1 cup sweet potato
  • .25 cup minced garlic
  • 1.5 cup diced onions
  • .5 tablespoons red pepper flakes
  • .5 tablespoons dried basil
  • 1 tablespoon fresh oregano
  • 2 tablespoons nutritional yeast
  • 51 ounces canned diced tomato
  • .75 cup red wine
  • 1 cup vegetable stock
  • .75 cup oat milk
  • 1 tablespoon soy sauce
  • 2 bay leaves
  • 1 ounce fresh thyme
  • .25 cup tomato paste
  • 2 tablespoons avocado oil
  • 3 tablespoons agave
  • Salt to taste

Procedure:

1. Shred carrots, parsnips and sweet potatoes.

2. Pulse vegetables in a food processor until a course grind. This will give you a meat texture.

3. In a 2-gallon stock pot add oil and get hot. Then add diced onions, cook until translucent.

4. Add carrots, parsnips, red pepper flake and sweet potatoes. Cook on medium high until vegetables begin to caramelize. About 5-7 minutes.

5. Add garlic, cook about 3 minutes.

6. Add tomato paste, cook about 3-5 minutes or until tomato paste changes color.

7. Deglaze with red wine, vegetable stock and soy sauce, reduce until liquid is almost cooked away.

8. Add remaining ingredients, except for the milk, simmer until vegetables are tender not mushy.

9. Add oat milk or alternative milk of your choice, simmer for 3 minutes.

10. Serve with the pasta of your choice. We use campanelle.

11. Garnish with parmesan, chiffonade basil and brown butter.

Irish Joints to Try

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1Mucker’s Pub and Eatery

Photo courtesy Mucker’s Pub

An Irish pub perfect for watching soccer, Mucker’s is located in OKC’s NW 23rd District. The joint uses 100 % beef hot dogs, or Irish bangers, piled with your choice of toppings. For those meat-free, plant dogs and pizza are available, too. Wash it all down with a variety of local beers on tap, or a craft cocktail.

2Bishop Quigley 

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A new pub nestled into Tulsa’s Maple Ridge neighborhood, Bishop Quigley is perfect for a quiet sip or a fun night with friends. Try the pub curry, complete with chicken, shrimp, veggies, and basmati and garlic naan, or the old faithful: fish and chips. Brews win the day, with Guinness on tap, as well as a bevy of bottled and canned beers. 

3McNellie’s

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McNellie’s combines that friendly Irish feel with traditional pub grub. From cottage pie to fish and chips and everything in between, diners can enjoy a slice of Ireland in Oklahoma. Drinkers will also enjoy the rotating beer menu, as well as a collection of Irish spirits.

4Kilkenny’s 

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Tulsa’s go-to spot for all things Irish, Kilkenny’s on Cherry Street is as authentically Irish as they come. Try the Jenkinstown Cottage pie, with beef tips, peas, carrots, mashed potatoes and vegetables, or the Black Abbey Bangers and Mash, with Irish sausage, caramelized onions and Guinness gravy.

5Sean Cumming’s Irish Pub

Photo courtesy Sean Cumming’s Irish Pub

Many an Irish pub slaps a couple of Americanized dishes on the menu and calls it a day. But not Sean Cumming’s. Here, you can enjoy everything from Boxty – traditional Irish pancakes – to stew, corned beef and cabbage, and Shepherd’s pie. Stick around for pub fare, plus drinks, desserts, soups and salads. 

6The Black Raven

Photo courtesy The Black Raven

Irish whiskey, bangers and mash, fish and chips, corned beef and cabbage. What more could you want from The Black Raven? The beloved pub, based in Harrah, also has other mouth watering entrees to whet your whistle. 

7O’Connell’s Irish Pub & Grille

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A Norman institution, O’Connell’s Irish Pub & Grille offers the quintessential pub experience with delicious food and drink, plus events like karaoke and trivia. Try fish and chips, delicious burgers and a variety of brews on tap. Who knows – maybe some of them will be green on the holiday.

8J. Farley’s Pub

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Americanized Irish fare is the name of the game at Claremore’s J. Farley’s Pub. Nosh upon Reubens, Shepherd’s pie, chicken and cabbage or wolfhounds – cheesy dogs. The restaurant also hosts an array of weekly events, like bingo, karaoke and live music. 

9CJ Moloney’s

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What brings you into CJ Moloney’s in Broken Arrow is most likely the array of entertainment options – pool, darts, live music and karaoke – but you’ll stay for the delicious meals, ranging from corned beef to patty melts.

Classics and New Twists

Photo by Julia Cervantes courtesy Celebrity Attractions

In Tulsa, the PAC welcomes a range of entertainment options to suit any taste. The month begins with American Theatre Company’s All The King’s Women from March 1-9. The story follows Elvis Presley, but his story is told through the eyes of 17 women in his life. You won’t want to miss the last bit of My Fair Lady’s run, through March 3, brought by Celebrity Attractions. Other goodies at the PAC include Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone in Concert, performed by Tulsa Symphony on March 9-10, as well as the Horszowsi Trio, hosted by Chamber Music Tulsa. The fun doesn’t end there – Tulsa Ballet’s romantic tragedy Romeo and Juliet runs March 21-24, as well as Celebrity Attraction’s To Kill A Mockingbird March 26-31. At Tulsa Community College’s VanTrease PACE, enjoy Inevitable Beethoven: The Struggle for Creation on March 2. 

The Civic Center Music Hall hosts OKC Broadway’s Wicked through March 10. Don’t miss OKC Philharmonic’s show Glorious Life on March 23, alongside Canterbury Voices’ All for the Saints performance on March 14. At the Susan E. Brackett Dance Center, OKC Ballet presents its annual Future Voices showcase on March 7-10. Take a quick trip to Edmond to enjoy the talented violinist Ray Chen on March 14. 

Outside the major metros, visit the Simmons Center in Duncan for hilarious musical The Addams Family, March 1-2, or the McKnight Center in Stillwater for the Piano Spectacular on March 3. 

America’s Pastime, Plus So Much More

Photo courtesy the Harlem Globetrotters

A mixed bag of sporting events make March prime spectator time.

In Tulsa, the Oilers can still be found on the BOK Center rink on March 2, 3 and 29. Stick around Tulsa’s largest event venue for the Big XII Wrestling Championships, running March 9-10, as well as the Bassmaster Classic fishing event, March 22-24. Expo Square also hosts a couple of intriguing events – the Oklahoma Reining Horse Association’s Ride and Slide, March 5-10, as well as the Oklahoma Men’s Gymnastics State Meet, March 15-16. 

We’re seeing an uptick in baseball and softball this month, with a bevy of home games for our two largest public universities. OU softball – the reigning national champs – play at home, Love’s Field in Norman, March 1-3, 6, 8-10, 12, 20 and 23-24. Across the way, visit L. Dale Mitchell Park to watch OU baseball games March 5, 8-10, 12, 19, 22-24, 26 and 28-30. In Stillwater, the Cowboys play at the O’Brate Stadium March 1-3, 5-6, 8-10, 19 and 22-24, and the Cowgirls hit the field, Cowgirl Stadium,  on March 1, 6, 13, 15-17, 26 and 28-30. 

Worry not, basketball fans! You can still enjoy OKC Blue and OKC Thunder games at Paycom Stadium all month long. And for an extra dash of b-ball entertainment, stick around for the Harlem Globetrotters on March 23. 

If you want to participate in the action yourself, try the Stilly Half & 5K on March 2 at Stillwater’s T. Boone Pickens Stadium, or the Mid-South Endurance Festival, March 14-17, at District Bicycles in Stillwater.