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In Norway, halibut is served to royalty on special occasions because of its delicate flavor and dense, meaty texture. Halibut can weigh upwards of 600 pounds, and are a member of the flatfish family. A 3.5-ounce halibut portion contains 1000 milligrams of omega-3 fatty acids that help our bodies with inflammation. Most experts agree that people should eat at least six ounces of fish per week because the protein is high quality and low in fat, containing many vitamins and minerals.     

Many people are concerned about the mercury content in fish. I believe the benefits far outweigh the risks, especially when you know where the fish were caught or farmed. Interesting research from Purdue University shows that drinking tea with fish can bind some of the mercury present in fish. 

Halibut is easy to cook and does not smell or taste “fishy.” I bake it at 375 degrees in the oven for 20-30 minutes with a sauce or simply with lemon, butter and seasonings. Below are a couple of recipes for easy sauces that complement halibut. Simply mix together, pour over four to six halibut filets and bake in a 375-degree oven for 20 to 30 minutes, until fish flakes with a fork.

Apricot Sauce

1/2 c. apricot jam
2 tbsp. white wine vinegar
1 1/2 tsp. fresh tarragon, chopped

 
French Sauce

3 tbsp. honey
3 tbsp. Dijon mustard
3 tbsp. rice vinegar

What We're Eating

My Thai Kitchen

The farther one is away from the homeland of an ethnic cuisine, the less likely one is to get a taste of food the way it is supposed to taste, usually. Fortunately, My Thai doesn’t cook “down” to its guests. Instead they perfectly balance tastes emerging from Thai staples such as Thai basil, lemongrass, kaffir lime leaves, chilis, fish sauce and coconut milk. The result is a sizable menu with many dishes permitting diners to choose a preparation and a protein to feature. Red and green curries leave some diners seriously wanting to lick their plates clean; the Steam Fish in Thai Herbs shows a masterful hand with seafood; and a Panang beef (or chicken) is one of many good options for those who don’t want any heat at all in their dish. 3023 S. Harvard, Tulsa. 918.794.7093

Big Al’s Healthy Foods

The arrival of the holiday season can have lunchers longing for something on the lighter side. Like, say, a delicious wrap containing avocado and turkey, or a homemade soup with healthy ingredients. Let Big Al’s feed you, then. With today’s emphasis on healthy, clean eating, Big Al’s has never been more relevant in its more than 30 years in operation. Sandwiches, salads, panini, wraps, smoothies – all can be found at the luncheon place in midtown Tulsa. Feeling frazzled? Try a Stress Relief Mix smoothie, which includes the juices of carrots, celery, red bell pepper, parsley and tomato. Or enjoy a warm bowl of soup. Some favorites at Big Al’s are spicy chicken enchilada, tomato basil, Italian wedding soup and hearty vegetable. 3303 E. 15th St., Tulsa. 918.744.5085

S & B’s Burger Joint

S & B’s is slinging burgers, sliders and beer that keep Oklahoma City patrons coming back for more. Most items on the menu can be ordered in slider or traditional burger form, but a few only come in mini format, including the Blue Philly, a slider topped with grilled rib eye, red onions, garlic and blue cheese. The Frenchman is a popular menu item, topped with mushrooms, swiss, fried onions and a French onion sauce. The Lava is topped with Cincinnati chili, sharp cheddar and onions, while the Columbian is an exotic choice, with a sea salt and coffee crusted patty served with smoked cheddar, lettuce, red onion, avocado and cilantro lime salsa. Fries, both French and sweet potato, are available, with an impressive selection of smothered fries. Embrace the season and try the Thanksgiving Fry, sweet potato fries topped with marshmallow cream, dried cranberries and chopped pecans. 5929 N. May Ave., Suite 106, Oklahoma City. 405.843.8777

Easing the Pain of Loss

End of life is as natural as the beginning of life, but is nevertheless often laden with anxiety and trepidation. For patients being treated for terminal illnesses, the reality is frightening – but it needn’t be a painful experience. It is this aspect of death that hospices seek to alleviate, by providing services to generally terminal patients, and assistance to families grieving their inevitable loss.

The services provided by hospices typically take the form of “comfort care,” a method of medical treatment which focuses on alleviating both emotional and physical suffering for people who are in the final days of their lives as a result of age or illness.

An important distinction should be made about comfort care in that it is not necessarily a process that only terminal patients go through, but rather a method of treatment that can be taken up by anyone who desires to not be in pain and to not be alone as they undergo aggressive treatment to heal their maladies.

Hospice workers advise that families should feel comfortable in asking questions about the approaching deaths of their loved ones, initiating the conversations with their medical providers if necessary.

“Some doctors will hesitate to ask about a family’s stance on comfort care with terminal illnesses,” says Carolyn McGhey, a staff member at Grace Hospice. “Good doctors will talk about it all along.”

In addition to providing care for those suffering pain, hospices also provide noteworthy services to the families and friends of their patients, some for up to 13 months after the patient’s death. These services range from therapeutic counseling, to discussions with social workers and meetings with clergy members – services that are also provided to all hospice patients over the course of their care.

Overall, what hospices offer to terminal patients is an easing of pain, with meetings taking place frequently over individual needs, plans of care, medical regiments and the providing of medical equipment.

Similar services are also provided by institutions such as Clarehouse, which offers medical care and nursing in conjunction with hospice care as part of an end-of-life regimen.
“We work side by side with the hospice,” says Cheryl Martinez, clinical coordinator of Clarehouse.

Of the family-type care they offer, she says that Clarehouse “provides a break to families, so they can enjoy their last days with a loved one.”

An important consideration regarding hospice care is of course the cost.

“Medicare pays for a lot of hospice care,” says Jamie Webb, a nurse with Saint Francis Hospice in Tulsa. “There’s no out of pocket costs for the patients for issues related to their illness,” meaning that services provided directly related to an illness are not often charged to the family.

Hospices often take charity cases as well, she adds.

Aside from providing comfort care, terminal patients and their families also have legal considerations as they face a life’s end.

Such considerations are typically expressed by terminal patients with end-of-life advance directives, which convey their wishes in concrete legal terms. 

“Basically, the living will is what I sign when I’m terminally ill,” says Andrew Wolov, an estate attorney with the Hall, Estil law firm. “It’s what I sign if someone else is going to need to make decisions for me.”

But the living will – officially known as an advance care directive – is not the only document important for end-of-life patients. There are also arrangements that can be made for wishes regarding organ donation and to legally designate health care proxies.

Generating Relief

Autumn’s cool breezes and mild temperatures carry with them the anticipation that winter is just around the corner.

Recent winters have hit Oklahoma with several epic snowstorms. The record snowfall earlier this year left most of our state digging out for days and thousands without power. This season, many are looking to be prepared next time.

David Burke, president of Gilley Electric, who has been selling Generac generators for 18 years, says sales today are higher than ever.

Ginette Overall, owner of Power Ready, agrees. She opened Power Ready, an authorized Briggs and Stratton dealer, after she spent days without power. Upon opening, business was so busy she didn’t get her own unit installed for three months.

Why are so many people buying generators? Overall says the peace of mind that generators provide in case the lights go out and the heat is off is part of the reason. She believes generators add value to your home.

“I think generators will become expected to be in the home just like garage door openers and security alarms,” says Overall.

“There are lots of reasons to have (a generator) and not many to not have one.”

There are many options available when choosing a generator. Various sizes and fuel options allow for a range of uses. Choosing the right generator is as easy as a phone call.

Both Overall and Burke say they can help you analyze your needs and match your home with an appropriate unit.

The area you want to power with your generator can vary, including powering the whole house or a specific area for emergencies.

“We can install a generator to power your ‘safe zone,’” explains Burke. “You can power anything except your A/C with this set-up.”

Homeowners can also choose between a permanent unit and a portable generator. Permanent units have higher installation costs; however, they are less expensive to operate. Cheaper to purchase, portable generators will cost the price of the gas used, Burke points out. Additionally, a permanent unit can have an automatic transfer switch that senses when the power goes out and will turn the unit on and off. This convenient feature makes the unit very safe to use.

Typically, there are three common fuel types: natural gas, propane and gasoline. Natural gas tends to be the most cost effective choice, even though the upfront costs can be higher.

“Natural gas is the lowest costing fuel to operate a generator,” says Burke. “And, all of the other fuels’ supply has to be monitored so you are prepared.”

“The cost varies, but at Power Ready it usually starts at $3,200 (for a non-portable generator), and then installation can be around $1,500 to $3,500.”

Burke estimates the cost for a Generac portable generator between $1,200 and $1,500, and the cost of a large, permanent generator that can power the entire home between $6,000 and $7,000.

Generators require regular maintenance, reminds Overall.

“You should have a certified technician check it out regularly,” she explains. “It needs oil and filters, just like a car.”

Burke advises to be cautious of whom you buy from.

“They will be telling you how to use your generator,” says Burke. “So make sure they are properly trained.”

Matthew Kenney

Located in stylish Classen Curve, in the heart of meat-and-potatoes country, is a restaurant that has committed itself to producing raw and living cuisine that is healthful and delicious. Occupying the space that was formerly 105degrees, Kenney’s first restaurant venture in the Midwest is doing its best to convince carnivores that delicious food can also be healthy and vegan. All foods prepared in the kitchens at Matthew Kenney are never heated to more than 118 degrees.

Modern décor with sleek lines and contemporary styling make the dining experience even more uniquely innovative. Starters such as Chips and Guac and Spicy Vegetable Spring Rolls are very accessible, while main dishes that include Green Curry Noodles, Pizza Bianco and Popcorn Shrimp – a dish of king oyster mushrooms, romesco, tartar sauce and parsley powder – utilize raw-food techniques. The BLT salad is a mix of bibb lettuce, pear tomatoes, coconut bacon and ranch dressing, and is about as downhome as you can get at Matthew Kenney. 5820 N. Classen Blvd., Suite 1, Oklahoma City. www.kenneycuisine.com

Reversal Of Fortune

You’ve probably seen the commercials on TV. Celebrities such as Robert Wagner endorsing them as the best thing since sliced bread. In light of the tanking economy, reverse mortgages, or at least ads for them, seem to be all the rage – promising financial help for seniors. 
But what are the real details, and risks, of this emerging trend?

A reverse mortgage is a loan for senior homeowners, which uses a portion of the home’s equity as collateral. The loan generally does not have to be repaid until the last surviving homeowner permanently moves out of the property or passes away. At that time, the estate has approximately six months to repay the balance of the reverse mortgage or sell the home to pay off the balance. The estate inherits all remaining equity. The estate is not personally liable if the home sells for less than the balance of the reverse mortgage.

If that sounds too good to be true, it’s important to note that there are conditions and caveats.

“Like a lot of financial services offered, when used correctly, it can make sense in the right situation,” says Stephen Plaisance, executive vice president and chief operating officer for Arvest Bank.

“However, these are highly specialized offerings that are not commonplace to find. Many lenders simply do not offer it, and it does have strings attached.”

Those strings include up-front costs, which are the most common target of reverse mortgage scrutiny. According to Plaisance, the government has tried to improve on the costs associated with a reverse mortgage, but it still has a reputation for its expense. 

Still, for some, and if used correctly,
a reverse mortgage can be a useful tool.

It is also quite possibly the only loan program where you have to be a certain age to qualify: 62. Consequently, the profile of the customer automatically rings the bells of “taking advantage” of the elderly and other predatory lending concerns.

Plaisance recommends seniors considering a reverse mortgage get their family involved.

Arvest, like many other lenders in the area, does not offer reverse mortgages at this time. 

“At Arvest, we have explored offering this product, but since we are so interested in making sure we can be as much of the process, of the loan sale, we have been unsuccessful in offering it,” says Plaisance. “It requires a great deal of specialization which we simply do not have at this time. Plus, this is a highly sensitive loan product, and we would only want to do it the right way, ensuring we take care of our customers.”

Still, for some, and if used correctly, a reverse mortgage can be a useful tool, according to Gentra Abbey Sorem, an attorney with Conner & Winters. 

“The reverse mortgage is a good resource for persons who need to supplement a fixed income or need a lump sum for medical or other extraordinary expenses and do not wish to leave their home,” says Sorem. “No repayment is required to the bank until the borrower dies, moves away or the borrower fails to maintain the residence (i.e., repair, pay insurance premiums and ad valorem taxes).”

However, Sorem warns borrowers of potential pitfalls.

“The borrower may die or have to move into a nursing home within a few years or months after making the loan,” says Sorem. “And generally there is no equity or residence to leave to heirs because the outstanding balance will equal or exceed the value of the home.”

Stepping Up

Stillwater’s Alicia Payne Murie suffered a traumatic brain injury (TBI) in high school. She battled her way back from a coma and attended Rose State College. While there she extensively researched TBI and began an international online club, TBI Raiders, to share her findings. Now Murie is bringing TBI Raiders and TBI awareness to the real world, with the hope of one day creating a national organization able to make a difference in the lives of those with TBI.

Oklahoma Magazine: What was your experience with TBI?
Alicia Payne Murie: When I was 16 years old, I was broadsided by a car, traveling at 60 miles per hour, on the driver’s side. I received a left-right traumatic brain injury, which is the deadliest form of TBI.

OM: Where did you go from there? What set you on the path to found the TBI Raiders?
AM: A lot of things. I went to Rose State College. I was there for four years and one semester. That was making up for high school, because I couldn’t remember it. Only bits and pieces.

OM: Lost memories?
AM: I sort of know what high school was like. But I can’t remember any details.

OM: What inspired you to found TBI Raiders?
AM: In the summer of 2001, I created a website, TBI Corner. It was filled with information about kindergarten through 12th-grade kids and TBI. After that, I talked with a friend about how more needs to be done to help college students with TBI. There was nothing for us. We just get lumped into other disability categories, and people expect that they’ll fit us. In January 2002, I was taking classes in HTML, digital imaging, and some other web stuff. And I was already teaching myself about web design. I started up a website, and we established TBI Raiders, an online club to help college students with TBI.

OM: You named your organization the TBI Raiders. Where does the “Raiders” come from?
AM: Rose State’s mascot is the raider. When we were trying to think of a name, we wanted a “sports” name. We needed to have something of our own. Instead of just a plain old organization, we wanted to be kind of like a sports team. And we’re pretty much “raiding” across the nation to educate everybody about TBI.

OM: We’re pretty clear about what students with other disabilities need. What’s something a student TBI survivor needs?
AM: One key thing has to do with testing. When I was at Rose State, a history professor wouldn’t use multiple choice tests. You have to do a lot of memorizing for fill-in-the-blank tests. The professor wouldn’t accommodate me whatsoever. Up until about a month before the finals, I was making an F on every test. And then when he finally started accommodating me, I started making As and Bs.

OM: Give me an example of an effort that TBI Raiders is making to create some awareness about TBI out there.
AM: In the summer of 2004, I went to Washington, D.C. to represent Oklahoma Youth With Disabilities. There are a whole lot of misunderstandings between those with disabilities and those without disabilities. People make so many assumptions about each other. I’m recruiting students with and without disabilities and young adults with TBI. They can learn from each other. The students without disabilities can see that the only thing really separating them from those with TBI is just that we have more limitations than them. That’s all.

OM: What’s in store for TBI Raiders?
AM: There are a bunch of things I want to see happen in 10 years. We’re building a national nonprofit out of TBI Raiders. There are at least six states interested in creating a chapter of TBI Raiders. I would like to see a foundation established. We’ve got so many budget crises, and everybody’s having trouble getting funding for this and that. The foundation would provide funding for disability projects and grants, TBI scholarships, schools, hospitals and so on. I want to create a national scholarship for a traumatic brain injury survivor.

 

Atlantis in Oklahoma

Oklahomans know about the Dust Bowl displacements and relocations, but in the state’s history, not all sites were abandoned because they were dusty. Sometimes, towns in Oklahoma were abandoned because they were underwater.

The vast majority of Oklahoma’s 38 major lakes are man-made, and in the construction, redirected water caused some towns to become future scuba sites.

Lead park ranger of Kaw Lake, Jim Anderson, says that the towns of Kaw City, Uncas and Washaunga were flooded in the creation of Kaw Lake.

“As the lake rose up, it came into different parts of the community,” Anderson says. “You can still see where some of the streets were. The park’s roads are actually the streets of the towns.”

The occupants of the towns were given the option to sell their property to the government, or the government would pay to have their homes moved to the new town site, the present location of Kaw City, Anderson says.

But although these underwater towns have been abandoned since the impoundment of the reservoir in 1976, they are not forgotten.

“I know that especially the old residents of the towns show an interest,” Anderson says. “The Uncas community has a reunion where the residents reminisce about the days gone by.”

Even some of Oklahoma’s biggest names were impacted. Will Rogers’ ranch on Oologah Lake was relocated to higher ground. North Fork Town, old stomping grounds of outlaw Belle Starr, now lies somewhere beneath Lake Eufaula’s waters. But Starr’s schoolhouse and her burial site are located downstream, operations project manager of Lake Eufaula Jeff Knack says.

Knack also tells how town relocations can give new meaning to the term “ghost towns.”

“Most of the questions we get are about the relocation of cemeteries, and we can help with that,” Knack says. He adds that lake offices can help with questions about old home and burial sites.

Because the entire process of creating a new body of water can take as long as 15 years, almost all structures are either relocated or torn down before the flooding begins, Knack says, but sometimes highways still exist.

Anderson adds that the Tulsa District Corps of Engineers created lakes for flood control, and other benefits include hydroelectric power, water supply and, of course, recreational opportunities.

The most recent lake created was Lake Arcadia, opened in 1987. Today, no new lakes are in the construction process so there needn’t be any worries about fish entering your house. Yet.

Fresh Music – Nov., 2011

Florence + the Machine, CeremonialsFlorence Welch, the delightfully eccentric British performer better known as Florence + the Machine, burst onto the UK music charts in 2009 with the debut album Lungs. The “Dog Days Are Over” singer then jumped across the pond and became a sensation in the U.S. with a breakout performance at the 2010 MTV Video Music Awards. Two tracks from the group’s sophomore album have been released to great response and early reviews indicate that if you liked Lungs, you’ll love Ceremonials.

Miranda Lambert, Four The RecordThe Texas native who now calls Tishomingo, Okla. home has had a rise to fame most young artists only dream about. Her first album, 2005’s Kerosene, debuted at No. 1 and went on to produce a string of hits. Her next two albums also went to No. 1 and produced eight chart-topping singles. Lambert’s aversion to “pop-country” in favor a gritty style that pays homage to old school country with elements of blues and rock has won her a legion of crossover fans. Expect more of her signature style and more hits from her fourth studio album.

Kate Bush, 50 Words For Snow In 1978, 19-year-old Bush became an overnight sensation with her hit “Wuthering Heights.” She went on to produce a series of innovative and widely acclaimed albums, including her 1985 masterpiece Hounds of Love, throughout the 80s and early 90s. Bush’s fans have grown accustomed to waiting a while between albums – she released no new material between 1993 and 2005, and 50 Words For Snow is her first album of new material in six years.

Rihanna, Talk That TalkThe Barbadian bombshell has been a regular on the music charts – amassing 20 top 10 singles faster than any other solo artist – and the media spotlight since her debut 2005 album Music of the Sun. Despite a prolific career – Talk That Talk is her sixth studio release – Rihanna has churned out surprisingly fresh material, experimenting with a variety of musical styles and themes. Her latest inspiration is a fascination with dubstep.

Sooner Born, Sooner Bred

A little more than 25 years ago, my grandpa took me to my first University of Oklahoma football game. It was Sept. 20, 1986, and the Sooners were playing the Golden Gophers of Minnesota. I was only 8 years old at the time, but still remember several things about that day.

I didn’t know I was going to the game until the very last minute. My grandfather stumbled into a pair of tickets the morning of the game. He figured the best companion would be his sports-obsessed grandson. He was right. For me, going to an OU game was a dream come true. The fact that I got to go with my grandfather made it even better.

OU shut out the Gophers, 63-0. What’s sad is that I remember trivial facts like the score of an obscure football game from the 1980s, yet I can’t remember normal things like if I took my heartburn medication or who was eliminated on the last episode of Survivor. Yeah, screw you. I still watch Survivor.

I also remember watching Brian Bosworth. If you are naïve enough to think that college athletes are not role models, then you should hop in a time machine and have a chat with 8-year-old Patrick. After that game, I wanted the Boz’s haircut, cool name and to wear No. 44 on my jersey for the Southside Chiefs Pee Wee football team. Unfortunately, the coach’s son took it. That was my first exposure to nepotism.

I bring that game up because I consider it the day I was officially inducted into the Society of Sooner Football Fanatics. But now, just over 25 years later, I’m thinking it’s about time to turn in my membership card.

I’m not sure why, but over the past few years I’ve lost a lot of interest in Oklahoma Sooners football. Sure, I still plan my autumn Saturdays around kick-offs and tailgates, and yes, I still get pumped when the Sooners win and depressed when they lose, but the feeling I used to have that OU football was the most important thing in life has kind of vanished.

Five years ago I could name the back-up center and who was redshirting a free safety. Now I need someone to remind me the name of the starting running back. I used to get mad when someone would try to talk to me during a game; now I spend half of the game checking text messages and posting comments on Twitter.

I’ve been trying to figure out the reason for this sudden lack of interest in the team. I’ve blamed everything from complacency to a lack of time to the Oklahoma City Thunder. Hell, I almost convinced myself that I’ve grown more mature, but considering I still watch Aqua Teen Hunger Force and Family Guy, that can’t be the culprit. 

I guess I can’t really pinpoint the exact reason why I’m no longer an OU super fan – it’s probably a combination of many things – but here’s something I do know. As long as I’m able to remember (and appreciate) those days like Sept. 20, 1986, I’m totally fine with it. Who knows? Maybe someday I’ll take my own grandson to his first OU game. Maybe he’ll become an OU fan like I once was. That would be totally worth it.

Keep up with Patrick’s evolving thoughts on Sooner football at www.thelostogle.com.