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Tasteful Travel

While honeymoons catering to food and wine lovers have been increasingly popular over the past decade, specific destinations appealing to those couples are readily familiar to most travelers – New York, Paris and Madrid, to name a few of the obvious. But, a table’s bounty awaits honeymooners in all sections of the globe.

Dining Down Under

Oceania was already a hot general tourism destination before global moviegoers traced hobbits to quiet, pastoral New Zealand. But while many travelers focus on sporting itineraries, Australia makes for a delicious oenophile honeymoon.

Outside Melbourne an hour by car, the Yarra Valley is a spectacular destination to stay or to visit on a wider itinerary. Lush, rolling green hills and misty forests accentuate the pristine environment. Here, more than 50 wineries dot the countryside, ranging from small family operations to well-known names such as Chateau Yering and Domain Chandon. Some of Australia’s finest pinot noir and sparkling wines are made here, among others. Explore and sample the wineries however suits you best – from self-guided tours to limo tours; and a sunrise hot air balloon excursion over the valley is most memorable. Dining is luxurious here, with the region also being famed for its dynamic produce. For a spectacular afternoon, consider packing a basket of local products and taking to the National Rhododendron Gardens for a picnic among lush flowers.

Other significant wine regions include Barossa Valley and McLaren Vale in the south and Margaret River and Swan Valley in Western Australia.

Into The Cape

Like Australia, South Africa has witnessed a notable increase in the popularity of its wine and food in recent years. And also like Australia, tourism has benefitted as a result and today South Africa draws as much interest in its fine dining as it does its famed veldt. Fortunately, ample elegant options for accommodations and fine dining in Cape Town, just a short distance from many of the nation’s leading wineries. Just 20 minutes from Cape Town, Constantia is a leading wine region with myriad offerings. The Route 62 wine trail has been called the longest wine route on earth with a host of wineries and vineyards along its winding path, and the Stellenbosch Wine Route and its famed JC Le Roux sparkling wine is the country’s oldest trail. Famed destinations include the 245-year-old Spier Wine Estate; the town of Robertson, home to the acclaimed Robertson Winery, winner of numerous international awards for its shiraz, sauvignon blanc and chardonnay varietals; the Wellington region, famed for its brandy; and Paarl, South Africa’s third oldest town and home to internationally renowned Nederburg Wine Estate, as well as numerous other premier brands.

Fine dining can be found throughout the Cape, but the nearby Franschhoek Wine Valley is considered the “gourmet capital of South Africa,” and is a terrific alternate to Cape Town for honeymooners’ stays.

At Earth’s End

At the veritable end of the world, Chile’s mid-southern region offers adventurous honeymooners with a taste for good wine and food an emerging destination rich in opportunities. Chilean wines, predominantly reds, are wildly popular today for quality and value. Primary wine destinations, easily accessible from the capital of Santiago, include Maipo Valley, San Antonio Valley, Cachapoal and Casablanca Valley. Hospitable wineries cheerfully greet visitors throughout, crafting tasting experiences thrust against the beautiful backdrop of the sea to the west and the mountains to the east. Chilean wines will present surprises to even veteran wine aficionados.

In culinary terms, Chile’s best features are an abundance of fresh produce from its green core and the bounty of the sea. But being a city of some five million people, many different cuisines are represented, and foodies will find countless opportunities to indulge themselves in Santiago. In addition to ample high caliber food and free-flowing local wine, there are beautiful accommodations in Santiago and more than a few city attractions to ensure a memorable stay at the far end of the world.

Quintessential Wine Country

Of course, after France, the first destination many American think of when it comes to wine-driven travel is California wine country. And when it comes to the quintessential Sonoma Valley venue, that image is of Healdsburg.

Everything about the town and its immediate vicinity appeals to wine and food lovers. Numerous vineyards and wineries are within easy travel of the quaint, lush town and there are numerous tasting rooms surrounding the central town square. Terrific zinfandels, pinot noir from Porter Creek and the Petite Sirah from Froppiano’s are among wine treats. Pair those wines with top-notch dining as well, since Healdsburg is a foodie paradise with an emphasis on fresh California cuisine in numerous restaurants located in town as well as fresh local products available in shops.

Capping Healdsburg’s travel appeal is that it caters extensively to wedding parties and honeymooners who want to enjoy the best that wine country has to offer.
Island in the Stream

Mention Portugal to many travelers and their thoughts might turn to smoky red wines and, of course, the homeland of the world’s greatest port wines. But Pico Island in the Azores might be the nation’s premier destination for true aficionados.

With Mt. Pico towering over it, Pico is a beautiful, serene, lush island that might look like somewhere in the South Pacific. But the South Pacific doesn’t produce world-famous wines, nor is it home to UNESCO world patrimony designated vineyards – unlike Pico, which can make both claims.

There are a few wineries worth visiting. Here you will want to sample regional wines and table wines under the Terras de Lava, Frei Gigante and Basalto labels and Pico’s most famous libation, fortified verdelho wines (Lajido). Dining life revolves around informal and very friendly cafes and dining is simple but very fresh and regional. Informal also describes accommodations, although service is likely to be warm and personal.

From whale watching to water sports, Pico is a nature lover’s paradise. And when you witness sunset from Mt. Pico after a beautiful 2-3 hour hike, “paradise” will definitely come to mind. What more could one ask of a honeymoon?

Bridesmaids Revisited

It’s been dubbed the “Pippa Effect” in response to the furor over Pippa Middleton’s form fitting Alexander McQueen bridesmaid dress that she wore to the royal wedding of her sister Kate to Prince William. Buzz over the dress and Pippa’s physique nearly upstaged the bride, but in reality this was the culmination of a tradition-kicking trend that has been in the works for years. Bridesmaid dresses don’t have to be the ill-fitting, pastel nightmares of generations past. Today’s bride isn’t afraid to let her bridesmaids stand out and be sexy and confident – though outshining the bride is still considered poor taste. Individualism is becoming the new tradition, with bridesmaids walking down the aisle in beaded ball gowns, cocktail dresses with cowboy boots and delightfully, but carefully, mismatched dresses that fit each bridesmaid’s body type and enhance the overall décor or theme of the wedding. Bridesmaids dress designers are embracing this trend with a variety of styles, and many brides choose dresses that may not have been created with bridesmaids in mind. So, when you’re choosing attire for your bridesmaids, forget the pastel taffeta – unless that’s what you’re into. Who knows, she just might wear it again.

2012 Oklahomans Of The Year

Oklahoma is a state that had been built on gumption and giving by diverse peoples working together to carve out a distinct culture and beautiful environment from a land once considered undesireable. That is our shared history and one buoyed by the tireless work of Oklahomans of all stripes. Oklahoma Magazine has once again scoured the state seeking suggestions of individuals who warrant specific recognition for their efforts on behalf of all residents in 2012. These five Oklahomans well represent the countless state residents who each and every day work toward building stronger communities and a better Oklahoma.

 

Peggy Dow Helmerich: The Giving Star

A former starlet still shines for causes across Oklahoma.

 

Tom Jones: Man on a Mission

City Rescue Mission gives hope to the homeless.

 

Tom McKeon: The Cultivator

The Tulsa Community College president grows success one student at a time.

 

Chief Gregory Pyle: Pride And Progress

The Choctaw leader has helped guide the Nation’s renaissance.

 

Mayor Cindy Simon Rosenthal: From Classroom To City Hall

Norman mayor’s public policy expertise has helped guide the city’s progress.

Efficiency And Etiquette

Your close friends and related peers are tech-savvy and used to living in a tweet-a-minute, constantly plugged in electronic world. They’re used to even the most elaborate plans for a group ski getaway or cruise being shared via email or even a vacation planning website. That doughty anachronism known as the post office is for delivery of junk mail and annual birthday gift cards from that distant great aunt Elsie. So, with the big event coming later this year, why not send out your wedding invitations via email and save both a tree and some money simultaneously?

Indeed, some couples will jump at the electronic option, either for the savings, the simplicity or for the green hipster cred. And email invitations are certainly increasingly common and have steadily improved to offer potential consumers a spectacular array of tools to create impressive multimedia extravaganzas. But time-honored traditions don’t fade easily, framing the question as efficiency versus etiquette.

It is that efficiency and improved quality that have buoyed recent use of email wedding invitations. Cost is part of that efficiency. The owner of www.emailweddinginvitations.net told Columbia News Service last year that the company could provide the same quality email invitations as it could printed versions for as low as $48.99 – and that business had gained steam the past two years. Numerous service providers can now craft for couples complete multi-media e-invites, complete with video, photo montage, music and much more – improving dramatically on earlier invitation versions with which many people are familiar. Efficiency of delivery is another factor couples consider since email invitations are far less time consuming, eliminating the need for much of the process including calligraphy, stamps, reply cards, postage, etc. Most service providers include a response option so keeping a tally of guests is considerably easier.

Combined with the environmental benefits, email invitations’ appeal is obvious. But it also isn’t universal, with such institutions as Bridal Guide Magazine opposing the trend, manners maven Anna Post having strong reservations and even Crane & Co. moving only slowly in exploring electronic applications.

Chief arguments against the e-trend are tradition. Emails tend to be informative or informal, not the bearer of formal symbolic gestures such as the wedding invitation, which is often saved as a keepsake.

“To many people, an electronic invitation just does not convey the same sense of importance as a paper-and-ink invitation received in the mail,” wrote Peggy Post, director of the Emily Post Institute and the great-granddaughter-in-law of its namesake, in a New York Times column in 2011.

Many weddings will also include guests who aren’t entirely technologically savvy, who don’t live their lives online, pay attention to email or routinely check their spam folder. The result is an inevitable two-tiered invitation process that makes it unlikely that all guests will receive their invitation simultaneously – another tradition – and complicates the entire process.

There are a number of ways technology can ease the wedding planning process without affecting tradition, such as a wedding website for disseminating information, sharing plans, collecting replies and requests, etc. A wedding Twitter account can be fun and festive. However, when it comes to determining whether to go with electronic or paper invitations, there are a number of factors to carefully consider and weigh against the vision you have of the special occasion.

“A wedding is considered one of life’s most important occasions, and the invitation that heralds it sets the overall tone of the event to come,” Peggy Post opined in the Times.

Scene Gallery January 2013

Tulsa Boat Sport & Travel Show

Skipper Bivins wants everyone to know that he and his family have not sold out their catfish noodling business, Big Fish Adventures in Temple, Okla. It says so on the website, www.wecatchbigfish.net. With the success of Animal Planet’s TV show Hillbilly Handfishin’ – which chronicles Bivins and pal Trent Jackson teaching city slickers to drag a muddy river monster to the shore with their bare hands – Bivens has put his enterprise on hold to film the popular reality series. Fans do not have to wait to shake those scarred catfish-gripping hands. The boys are scheduled to appear at this year’s Tulsa Boat Sport & Travel Show, scheduled for Expo Square’s Muscogee Creek Nation Center Jan. 28-Feb. 3. While there, visitors can find everything needed for those summer travel and camping plans. Tickets for the Jan. 28 preview night are $15. Adult admission is $10 through the rest of the show. Learn more at tulsaboatshow.com.

Decked to the Nines

Thirty days before he would marry the love of his life, Alex Pelley was involved in a serious car accident that left him with a fractured skull, internal injuries and nerve damage.

Despite all of that, just days before the wedding, 20 pounds thinner and very weak, Alex met his bride Cortney Ketchum in Tulsa to exchange vows, finding the strength to stand through the ceremony, have his first dance and take part in all of the precious rites of passages that are true to wedding tradition.

“He was amazing. He is amazing. God is so good,” Cortney says.

Having met through mutual friends in Dallas, Cortney, of Tulsa, and Alex, of Sherman, Tex., have a love story that could grace the silver screen, and their elegant, New Year’s Eve-themed wedding reception at the historic Mayo Hotel was worthy of any Hollywood romance.

With a proposal that took place on the top of a ski mountain in Vail, Colo., amidst a backdrop of breathtaking views, their engagement was the picture-perfect kick-off to what would blossom into a wedding that will have their guests talking and reminiscing for years to come.

“I had always wanted to be married on New Year’s Eve, but I never thought it would happen since Saturdays on Dec. 31st are only every seven years,” Cortney explains.

“Fortunately for us, the next New Year’s Eve after our engagement was a Saturday, and my childhood church, Kirk of the Hills, agreed to let us marry on that day. So my dream of a New Year’s Eve wedding got to become a reality.”

No fairy tale wedding is complete without a princess dress, and that is exactly what Cortney wore when she walked the aisle of her childhood church.

Complete with a matching cathedral length veil embellished with thousands of Swarvoski crystals, the exquisite details of her customized Carolina Herrera ball gown became the inspiration for the lavish seven-layer wedding cake that would grace the party to come.

After a heartfelt ceremony, Cortney and Alex exited the church to a horse drawn carriage, while guests released balloons lit with LED lights into the sky.

Chosen for its class factor and historic ambiance, the Mayo Hotel was ideal for a New Year’s Eve wedding, and their 377 guests were in for quite a treat when they arrived by bus from the church.

For their reception, no detail was spared in setting the mood for an evening of celebration on the highest of levels in the Mayo ballroom.

Elaborate flower arrangements boasting a ruby, mustard, royal purple and emerald green palate towered over the tables, and the room was decked to the nines with New Year’s Eve inspired props and decorations, complete with gold confetti, mirrored décor and sparkle and flash (or “bling” as Cortney recalls) dripping down from the ceiling.

The couple, who love to entertain, took great care with unique details, ensuring that their guests were catered to in style, from the eclectic 16-piece live band and posh, upscale décor, to the fully stocked bar and impressive variety of food that included shrimp, quail, lamb, sushi, carving stations and both Italian and Mexican cuisine.  

The band played from 9 p.m. and didn’t let up until 1 a.m., but the party continued on until 3 a.m. when guests were taken to the Mayo Penthouse for hand rolled cigars on the balcony and a spread of breakfast snacks.

And of course, what better way to toast the end of such a celebration than wedding favors of monogrammed champagne bottles and jars of black-eyed peas?

The Long, Last Walk

The condemned’s last day on earth begins before daybreak at the Oklahoma State Penitentiary in McAlester. Footfalls echo on death row as guards escort him to a holding cell only eight feet and 12 hours away from the execution chamber. In 2012, five convicted Oklahoma murderers walked the “last mile.” Gary Welch would have been the sixth, except he died of natural causes only weeks before his scheduled execution in January 2012.

Sixty-two others, including one woman, await their turns. One hundred have been put to death since 1976. Oklahoma leads the nation in executions per capita and ranks third behind Texas and Virginia in overall numbers.

Michael Edward Hooper was one of the death chamber’s most recent visitors on Aug. 14. He was sentenced to death for the Dec. 7, 1993, slayings of Cynthia Lynn Jarman, 23, and her two children, Tonya, 5, and Timmy, 3. He shot each twice in the head and buried their bodies in a shallow grave in a field near Oklahoma City.

Witnesses – both Hooper’s relatives and those of the victims – watched through a window from a separate room as Hooper delivered his final words while strapped to a gurney with IV tubes attached to his arms.

“I just want to thank God for such an exuberant send-off. . .” he said. “I ask that my spirit be released into the hands of Jesus. I’m ready to go.”

Although “we have means to prevent them from fighting or trying to get off the table,” says Terry Crenshaw, Warden’s Assistant at McAlester, “individuals have pretty well made peace with their God by this time.”

“The scary psychopath who should be executed is a rare exception rather than the rule.”

People of good will have debated both sides of capital punishment since at least 1608 when the death penalty was first administered in the New World to a resident of Jamestown Colony for spying for the Spanish government. Throughout the rest of the 17th century, the British Governor of Virginia’s Divine, Moral and Martial Laws hung the convicted for all sorts of crimes, including stealing vegetables and trading with Indians.

Capital punishment came to Oklahoma in 1804 when Congress applied U.S. criminal law to the Louisiana Purchase, which included Oklahoma. Capital crimes were tried in federal courts in Arkansas, Kansas and Texas until Indian Territory became a state in 1907. Judge Isaac Parker, the “hanging judge,” sent a total of 79 Indian Territory convicts to the gallows.

Hanging remained Oklahoma’s most common method of execution until 1915 when Henry Bookman became the first convicted Oklahoma killer to sit in “old sparky,” the electric chair. A total of 82 males, no females, died in the state’s electric chair until the Supreme Court ruled the death penalty unconstitutional in 1972.

Execution has been by lethal drugs since the death penalty was reinstated in 1976. Charles Troy Coleman holds the dubious honor of being the first Oklahoman to die by this “more humane method” when he was executed on Sept. 10, 1990, for a 1979 murder in Muskogee County. Wanda Jean Allen, executed in 2001 for slaying her lesbian lover, was the first woman in the state to die by lethal injection – one of only three women executed in Oklahoma since statehood. Currently, 34 states still actively practice capital punishment.

Certain aggravating circumstances must be present before a killer can be sent to Death Row in Oklahoma. These include prior conviction for a violent felony; knowingly creating great risk to more than one person; murder for hire; an exceptionally atrocious or cruel murder; murder committed to avoid arrest or prosecution; murder while serving a sentence for a violent felony; and a high probability of a repeat offense or of becoming a further threat to society.

A 2006 Oklahoma law, so called “Jessica’s Law,” allows the death penalty for anyone convicted twice for rape, sodomy or lewd molestation involving children under the age of 14. It has not yet been applied in the state.

Abolitionist groups such as Oklahoma’s Anti-Death Penalty Project and the Oklahoma Coalition to Abolish the Death Penalty oppose all capital punishment on a variety of levels ranging from the moral to the practical. More than 200 death penalty opponents gathered outside the federal penitentiary in Terre Haute, Ind., on June 11, 2001, when Oklahoma’s most notorious son, Timothy McVeigh, was executed for killing 168 people in the bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building. Abolitionists held a “Don’t Kill For Me” silent vigil at the Governor’s Mansion on the evening of Michael Hooper’s execution.

“The long period between conviction and execution strings out grieving families as they wait for closure.”

“Murder is often committed by insane, intoxicated, passion-ridden people who don’t consider the consequences of their acts,” asserts Joe P. Robertson, director of the Oklahoma Indigent Defense System that employs 75 full-time staff attorneys statewide to represent indigent defendants. “But what about someone who knows all the facts, is soberly cognizant and makes a considered opinion to kill? That’s what a jury does. What’s the difference between an individual killing someone and a jury killing someone? Killing should be wrong for everyone.”

Proponents of capital punishment take umbrage with the assertion that condemned murderers may not be responsible for their choices and actions. Some crimes, they argue, are so horrific that society’s only adequate response is to prescribe death in order to re-level the scales of justice.
“The scary psychopath who should be executed is a rare exception rather than the rule,” concludes Tulsa County Chief Public Defender Pete Silva, who defended his first capital offense in 1979. He, like many of those who oppose capital punishment, contends the death penalty is no deterrent to crime.

A 2008 poll cited by the Death Penalty Information Center in Washington D.C. surveyed the nation’s police chiefs and reported that almost all of them ranked the death penalty last among their crime-fighting priorities since they did not believe it deterred.

“I have inquired for much of my adult life about statistics that might show that the death penalty is a deterrent,” Janet Reno, Attorney General under President Bill Clinton, has said, “and I haven’t seen any research that would substantiate that point.”

Does Tulsa County District Attorney Tim Harris, who has been a prosecutor for 27 years, think the death penalty is a deterrent? “Yes, I do. For that one individual, anyhow. First of all, it’s Oklahoma law. But since it is the ultimate punishment, it should be reserved for only the most heinous crimes.”

Another argument used by abolitionists is that lethal injection by drugs may not always provide painless death. Florida inmate Angel Diaz took 34 minutes and a second round of drugs before he died from lethal injection in 2006. Witnesses said he “gasped” and “grimaced.”

“We need to kill people softly,” Austin Sarat, a professor at Amherst College, has said, “to kill people gently in order to have a legitimate form of execution. And we just can’t figure out what that is.”

Former State Medical Examiner Dr. Jay Chapman, who helped approve the lethal drug method for Oklahoma executions, counters by saying, “Considering the methods by which (convicted murderers) dispatched their victims, (lethal injection) is perhaps a little too humane.”

In 2011, some 3,200 people were confined on federal and state death rows in the United States. It is far cheaper, say opponents of capital punishment, to house a prisoner for life than to execute him. The average cost from arrest to execution for a single inmate ranges from between $1 and $3 million. In Texas, a death penalty case costs about $3 million, while imprisoning an inmate for 40 years (a life sentence) costs $2 million.

Perhaps the strongest abolitionist argument is that innocent people may be executed.

“We’re the state with the highest per capita execution rate and the highest per capita wrongful conviction rate,” points out Dr. Susan Sharp, death penalty researcher at the University of Oklahoma.

Since 1973, 140 death row inmates nationwide have been released after being exonerated. Eight people have been cleared in Oklahoma while on death row, largely through relatively new DNA research.

Harris has established a review process to prevent wrongful convictions in Tulsa County.

“I’ve been present at three different executions,” he says. “When you’re there and watch it meted out, you know you can’t be wrong about the decision. We must make sure beyond a reasonable doubt that the evidence is appropriate, strong and that there are no mistakes.”

Polls show a majority of Americans continue to support the death penalty. In Oklahoma, according to the District Attorneys Council, most prosecutors oppose efforts to abolish capital punishment. The vast majority of law enforcement officers also believe that some convicted murders should pay the ultimate price.

The problem, cops say, is in the unconscionably long time between conviction and execution. In June 1936, Arthur Gooch was hanged after spending less than a year on Oklahoma’s death row. Today, legal appeals to higher courts can drag on for decades. Michael Hooper spent 19 years on death row. A Florida inmate died of natural causes at the age of 94 after spending 37 years awaiting execution.

Wagoner County Sheriff Bob Colbert believes the death penalty is a mockery of justice for the anguish it imposes upon the victim’s loved ones while the convicted killer languishes.

“The pain and suffering of the victim’s family is worse than anything the criminal endures,” he maintains.

“The long period between conviction and execution strings out grieving families as they wait for closure,” agrees Gary Neece, Tulsa Police sergeant and author of the novel Cold Blue. “If I had a mind to kill someone, and was actually convicted, my appeals would drag out for years. Finally, when my last day arrived, I could rest easy knowing I’d lived longer than my reckless lifestyle would have afforded me on the streets.”

The U.S. Supreme Court recently declined to hear the case of a Florida inmate who insisted his 32 years on death row amounted to cruel and unusual punishment. Justice John Paul Stevens, now retired, expressed concern over such long incarcerations on Death Row.

“Delays in state-sponsored killings are inescapable,” he said, “and…executing defendants after such delays is unacceptably cruel.”

Justice Clarence Thomas has a different take. “It is the crime, and not the punishment imposed by the jury or the delay in petitioner’s execution, that was ‘unacceptably cruel.’”

Joe P. Robertson believes capital punishment will eventually be abolished in America.

“We are one of the few nations in the world that still practices it,” he says. “The higher the level of education and sophistication within a state, the less likely it is to approve the death penalty. Where it prevails now is in the south and southwest. These will be the last states to abolish it.”

Should capital punishment eventually be stricken, contends Silva, the alternative must be life in prison without any possibility of parole in order that society can be adequately protected.

“There is a lot of talk about commuting sentences,” he explains, “which I think is a bad idea. The law should be what it says, and for everyone. Justice that is not certain is justice denied.”

In the meantime, life at McAlester for the approximately 60 men and one woman on Death Row continues as they await their “last mile.”

Warden’s Assistant Crenshaw describes a world that is uniformly concrete. Except for a few who are double-celled, the majority live solitarily in concrete cells approximately 12-by-eight feet. In each, the only furnishings are a bunk overlaid by a mattress, a toilet and a desk, all of which are concrete. A small, high window allows sunlight, but inmates are unable to see trees, grass or anything else outside.

The prisoner lives in this small space 23 hours of every day. He is allowed one hour a day in an exercise area either alone or with his cellmate. Like his cell, the exercise area is a somewhat larger concrete box, about 30 feet by 15 feet, with a small skylight window. There is no exercise equipment.

Each inmate may have a TV and is allowed to check out books that are carted around from the prison library system. Scheduled visitors must sit on the opposite side of a thick wall of glass.

Most eventually become accustomed to life on death row. “There’s a peacefulness,” one observes. “There is contentment. There’s peace and quiet.”

Contrary to popular myth, executions do not occur at midnight. The usual execution process in Oklahoma starts at about 5:30 p.m. and is over in less than an hour. Three guards watch and log the condemned’s every movement during his last day in the holding cell.

“He can make phone calls, write letters and have visitors,” says Crenshaw, “and he is allowed to shower and change into fresh offender’s clothing. He is served his last meal between noon and 1 p.m. It has to be selected off a menu from McAlester restaurants and cannot exceed $15.”

As time draws near, the individual is allowed to freely walk the short eight feet from the holding cell to the execution chamber. This is the only time during the day that he is not restrained.

“We have staff to help if he needs assistance, if his legs get weak or something,” Crenshaw explains.

The execution room is painted white; it contains only a white-sheeted gurney. The condemned is placed on the gurney, and an IV is inserted into each arm. Lines from the IVs lead through a wall behind which the executioners wait.

Witnesses enter the outer room, sit in chairs and watch through the plate glass window that separates them from the individual who is only minutes away from death. The warden allows the condemned two minutes to make his final statement. Afterward, behind the wall, out of sight, three executioners, whose identities are known only to the warden, administer three cocktail drugs with handheld syringes into the IV lines.

The first syringe contains pentobarbital, which causes unconsciousness. The second, vecuronium bromide, stops respiration. Finally, potassium chloride from the third syringe stops the heart.

Michael Edward Hooper smiled as the drugs began to flow at 6:08 p.m. He exhaled deeply, murmured, “I love you all,” closed his eyes, and lay motionless.

It was over.

What Not To Do

This is one of the most exciting and important moments of your life. You expect your bridal party to make your wedding their number one priority. Hold it, Bridezilla! People have their own lives and other matters with which to worry. When the majority of your bridesmaids are in their mid-20s, not everyone’s careers are established and some may be going back to school. Here are some pointers on how to maintain a sense of reality during planning for the Big Day.

Please be reasonable with the number of girls you select in your bridal party. This is not a competition with other brides to display who has more friends. The more bridesmaids you have, the more stressful the planning and coordinating can become. Also, this weakens your ability to cover certain important costs for your bridesmaids. When your bridal party exceeds six to eight girls, bigger problems tend to arise. Remember, your friends are investing not only a significant amount of money but also their valuable time to be in your bridal party.

If your wedding is a destination wedding (requiring a plane ticket), do not plan an extravagant bachelorette party unless you plan to chip in. Do not lose sight of the other expenses your bridesmaids have – engagement gifts, bridal shower gifts, wedding gifts, airfare/hotel for the wedding, actual expenses for the bridesmaid attire. This being said, it is also a good idea to allow some time in between the bachelorette party and the wedding so your bridesmaids can recover financially. Rather than scheduling the bachelorette party one month before the wedding, maybe coordinate it to take place three to six months before the wedding. Additionally, if you have your travel agent involved handling the travel plans for the bridesmaids, be certain the agent explains all the rules and conditions prior to booking and taking deposits.  In some cases, directly booking air and hotel may be best for bridesmaids, individually, versus going with the bookings by an agent.

If one of your bridesmaids was unable to attend the event and the travel plans were handled by the agent, the bridesmaid may not be able to get her deposit back. That might place a strain on the relationship.

If you are not paying for your bridesmaids’ dresses, please be kind and select a dress that is not only affordable, but something that can be worn again (no canary frocks, please). This goes for shoes, as well. If you are going to be so demanding with the height of the shoes, perhaps you can cover the cost of this or find a very affordable option for your friends to eliminate their endless search for the perfect shoe.

If your wedding does require your bridesmaids to travel, it is a nice gesture to treat them with hair and makeup. You are asking them to be a part of your big day, which includes numerous photos, so please be grateful for their effort and surprise them with these beauty treatments. This also goes for jewelry. If you are requiring the bridesmaids to wear a certain style of earrings or necklace, this could be the perfect gift for your bridal party.  

Some of these pointers might sound outrageous, but I have experienced each of these scenarios in some way during my role as bridesmaid in various weddings. Remember the golden rule: “Do unto others as you would have them do to you.” When you make requests of your bridesmaids, take a second to think to yourself, would you do this or even want to do this as a bridesmaid for one of your friends?

Edgar Payne: The Scenic Journey 

Living at the turn of the 20th century, Edgar Payne was a true man of his time. The Missouri-born painter who grew up roaming the Ozarks traveled the world painting landscapes and scenes like other Impressionists of the day, but it was his exploration of the American West and its powerful beauty that made him stand apart from the set. Like John Muir who poetically described it and Ansel Adams who photographed it, Payne translated the magnitude of nature for the world in an age of increasing industrialism. The touring exhibit Edgar Payne: The Scenic Journey, curated by the Crocker Art Museum in Sacramento, Calif., continues its exclusive stop in the region at Gilcrease Museum through March 24. Nearly 100 paintings and drawings by the artist complete this retrospective of his career, development and continuing influence in art. For more about the museum, hours, admission and this exhibit, visit www.gilcrease.utulsa.edu online.